Unify the front-end UI shell across the theta42 apps

views/top.ejs, views/bottom.ejs and public/lib/js/app-base.js are now
byte-identical across sso-manager-node, proxy and jump-host. Everything
per-app moved into utils/ui.js, exposed to every render as `ui` via
app.locals (nav items + their group gates, footer repo/docs/ToS links,
favicon, profile/logout targets, update-banner on/off + label).

Client framework changes:
- One gating model everywhere: app-base.js reveals .group-required-<cn>
  for each of the current user user/me groups. sso-manager-node sends LDAP
  DNs in memberOf, the OIDC clients send CNs in groups; both normalise to
  CNs, and the clients isAdmin flag becomes a synthetic `admin` group, so
  proxy nav-admin items are now group-required-admin.
- user/me is fetched once per page load and cached (app.auth.loadUser);
  nav, forceLogin and group-required elements all read that one promise.
- isLoggedIn is dual-mode (Promise + node-style callback), so the async
  and callback call styles both work from one shared top.ejs.
- forceLogin no longer uses $.holdReady (removed in jQuery 4): it redirects
  to /login?redirect=<path>, and still enforces required groups.
- logOut only clears the session; the caller decides where to go next.
- post/put/delete are dual-mode Promise/callback, which also removes the
  undefined `callback2` reference that threw on a non-function callback.

Dependencies: jquery ^4.0.0 and ejs ^3.1.10 in all three apps.

sso-manager-node specifics:
- val.js adopts the shared superset (adds the target/hostname rules and
  the password policy, and fixes the let-shadowed `message` that stopped
  custom rule messages from reaching validateMessage).
- GET /api/user/me now also reports isAdmin (membership in app_sso_admin).
- public/js/app.js: $.isFunction -> typeof (removed in jQuery 4).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

nodejs/package.json

@@ -36,7 +36,7 @@
     "express-rate-limit": "^8.5.2",
     "extend": "^3.0.2",
     "jq-repeat": "^2.2.0",
-    "jquery": "^3.7.1",
+    "jquery": "^4.0.0",
     "jsonwebtoken": "^9.0.3",
     "ldapts": "^8.1.8",
     "lru-cache": "^11.5.1",