feat(tray): desktop tray icon companion with Theta logo, color-coded status, and home LAN detection (#10)

- tray_icons.go / cmd/theta-agent-tray: Renders iconic Theta 42 logo in status colors:
    - 🔴 Red: Not connected to directory
    - 🟡 Yellow: Connected to directory, but not on home LAN
    - 🟢 Green: Connected to directory on home LAN
    - 🔵 Blue: Connected to directory with active WireGuard tunnel
- home_detect.go: Compares agent public IP with home site public IP
- tray_server.go / tray_ipc.go: Unix socket IPC daemon server (/run/theta/tray.sock or /tmp/theta-tray.sock)
- cmd/theta-agent-tray: Desktop GUI binary with system tray menu (Auto-connect toggle, Connect/Disconnect VPN)
- Auto-detects DISPLAY / WAYLAND_DISPLAY environment variables

go.sum

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