Bump proxy and sso-manager-node submodule pins to v1.1.14

- proxy -> v1.1.14
- sso-manager-node -> v1.1.14

Both bump @simpleworkjs/conf to 1.2.0 and jq-repeat to 2.2.0, and use
the new CONF_SECRETS env var instead of symlinking the mounted secrets
file into /app/conf/secrets.js. Updated theta-env's own docs/setup.sh/
docker-compose.yml comments to match -- no change to the config file
format or bind mounts.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

setup.sh

@@ -220,7 +220,7 @@ write_sso_secrets() {
 	cat > "$CONFIG_DIR/sso-secrets.js" <<SSOEOF
 'use strict';
 // Generated by setup.sh. Edit freely; re-run ./setup.sh to apply.
-// The SSO app reads this via @simpleworkjs/conf (symlinked to conf/secrets.js).
+// The SSO app reads this via @simpleworkjs/conf (CONF_SECRETS env var).
 // The app ignores the extra stack/bootstrap/serviceAccountPass keys (read by
 // the orchestrator). Back this file up off-host — it holds all SSO secrets.
 
@@ -271,8 +271,8 @@ write_proxy_secrets() {
 	local dn="$CFG_BASE_DN"
 	cat > "$CONFIG_DIR/proxy-secrets.js" <<PROXYEOF
 'use strict';
-// Generated by setup.sh. The proxy reads this via @simpleworkjs/conf (symlinked
-// to conf/secrets.js). clientId/clientSecret are filled in by the bootstrap
+// Generated by setup.sh. The proxy reads this via @simpleworkjs/conf (CONF_SECRETS
+// env var). clientId/clientSecret are filled in by the bootstrap
 // (run by ./setup.sh) — leave them as-is. ldap.bindPassword MUST equal
 // serviceAccountPass in sso-secrets.js (the proxy binds as that account).