Updates the status table and top-of-doc callout to reflect what actually
shipped this pass: live catalog replication, identical-directory signing
key, coordinated master promotion (with two real bugs found + fixed along
the way), and a real, tested gateway-to-gateway WireGuard mesh.
Explicitly calls out what's still NOT true despite all of the above: the
mesh exists as its own transport layer but sso-manager-node's join/
replicate traffic doesn't route over it yet, so the no-inbound-spoke
relay scenario still isn't solved end-to-end. mDNS remains unbuilt.